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The pain and shock of the separation, the questions about what went wrong, the sadness, and the healing process which contains ups and downs of its own.

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I think part of you can admit that you are avoiding facing some things about getting back with your ex. If you are considering getting back with your ex… you have to get real with yourself first.

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That means asking yourself those tough questions. It takes two people to build a relationship. It also takes two to screw it up. Some days they give 20 and you give I often refer to my first love because it was devastating for me. But, the truth is, I was the one overcompensating with effort for our entire relationship. Luckily, after some time apart, we sat down and had a talk where we talked about the issues that caused us not to work out in the first place.

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So, each of us walked away with a pretty good understanding of what we needed to fix whether we got back together or not. The thing is, he made changes to his life that were good for him. But those changes were for him.

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It took him 9 years to figure out that he was going to have to put effort into the relationship as well. And by that time, I was dating someone else. That only happened because I took the option away from him.

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The change was in his character. Wait for him to prove it. With this particular ex, I instituted No Contact and he kept trying to get in contact with me. Because, I gave in at that time over and over again. The fact is that when I stepped up and told him I needed some time apart and for him to figure out who he wanted to be he responded by respecting my wishes, something that he NEVER would have done without some serious personal growth.

Sometimes we bring destruction on ourselves by sabotaging what we have. If anyone is willing to take you back before you face your shortcomings then, you are going to wind up breaking up over and over again.

When an ex comes back can i identify the reasons behind the breakup?

And what you have to look at is the amount of time that has passed. If you are still questioning getting back together, then perhaps you still have some reservations. Then you can reach out and establish some rapport with her like we discuss in ExGirlfriend Recovery Pro. When you do this you need to be ready to lay out your concerns without coming across like you are attacking her. So, when you do sit down with he and tell her your concerns, avoid directing your concerns at her.

I want to know that we are on the same before we get involved again.

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But I need to know that we can put all of that in the past. However, if you are still uncertain, it is time to start deciding if your concerns are actual red flags. That means that if you start up a relationship with her now, it will be a continuation of the relationship you already ended. Nothing will change. If she is blaming the breakup on you, your mom, your friends, or you, then she is still holding on to residual anger. That means starting a relationship now there is still some serious anger on the table. So, you need to figure out if you WANT to be the man she is trying to turn you into.

If you do, then you should be able to make that change on your own. Otherwise, you will spend the relationship leaning on her for support. If you are considering getting back with her when there are still clear issues, then it will be the same relationship that you both already walked away from.

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Yes, it may have toggled from time to time, but the blame for the breakup cannot reside on only one of the people. If she is trying to take ALL of the blame, then you can be certain that she is trying to make you feel like you owe her something. By doing this she is definitely trying to get your trust in them to extend to her long enough for her to win you back.

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This is a pretty common tactic. But it is manipulative and starting a relationship this way sets you up to be manipulated by her for the entirety of the relationship if that is how you start it. If she is hammering you with a push pull method by telling you she wants to get back together and then changing her mind or going missing for a few weeks, then she is playing games. Starting a relationship this way is how you end up with a relationship that ends up being a power struggle instead of a partnership.

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It is natural not to trust someone that has already hurt you in the past. But if your gut is telling you not to trust her, then is is definitely time to address these issues at hand. Because, otherwise, you will spend the rest of your relationship your gut is going to be telling you not to trust her.

Now that you have ALL of this information, you are probably asking yourself what the heck you do with it. You can reach out with any questions here in the comments or you can shoot us an. Do you know what successful people do on a regular basis? They ask themselves the questions that are hard to hear the answers to.

Am I living up to my greatest potential? What is my worst case scenario in this situation and how do I plan on facing that if and when it happens? Am I holding on to any failures that I need to get want Am I happy with the person I am currently? Do I need to do some self-evaluation? Am I prepared to do what needs to be done? Do You Have Actual Reasons? Are You Ignoring s of the Opposite? Take the quiz. So, back I tell you that making this decision without taking the time for BOTH of you to do some soul-searching and improving on the issues that caused you to break up in the first place.

The same thing goes for a couple of weeks. Your mind will tell you that if you let her drift too far than she will find someone else.

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There is a reason that we have a No Contact Period set at 21 days, 30 days, and 45 days. It takes time to make changes. Related Articles.

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